My girlfriend planned a trip to Las Vegas and at the last minute I was unable to go. She didn’t want to reschedule, nor go alone, so she asked an ex-boyfriend to go with her. She has promised me a multitude of times that absolutely nothing will happen while they are together. They will be gambling and eating together, but nothing else.
I don’t believe a word of it. They are sharing a hotel room for the week and I don’t see how nothing will happen when I know that he still likes her and I once caught her going to see him when she said she wasn’t.
She tells me that when he goes to the room to sleep she will make sure she’s out and will only go to bed onc he’s gotten up and gone back out.
Am I wrong for thinking what I think and in no way trusting her in this situation? How would you feel or deal with it?
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No, you have a good reason to suspect them. I think you should change the locks on her before she comes home.
Im not a jealous person, and my boyfriend has lots of female friends, but there is no way in hell that I would put up with this… If she insists on taking the trip without you, she should be taking a female friend…
Wow! I totally think she has issues. No, you arent crazy for feeling the way you do your her boyfriend. If she truely cared for you she would have waited until you where able to go with her maybe you guys should rethink you relationship.
No, I would not trust her. Try to explain to her how its not a good idea even if she really does have good intentions. Things just happen when you get drunk, especially if he is still interested in her. I would not allow that to happen at all.
If the trip was meant for the two of you, it should be the two of you going. Ask her to take a female friend with her. She may just be doing this in retaliation because you cant go with her.
Just reason with her. Don’t be angry, don’t be mean, don’t give her any ultimatums. Let her know how uncomfortable you are with it. Hopefully she will realize that she shouldn’t do that to someone she loves.
Good luck
I think that was incredibly insensitive on her part. I can understand her not wanting to reschedule, but does she not have any girlfriends she could have brought with her instead.
This situation seems highly suspicious, and convenient that he was able to drop all of his previous engagements to take off to Vegas at the last minute.
HOWEVER
My best friend happens to be one of my ex’s, and he probably would be my back up if my current happened to bail on my last minute, and nothing would happen.
So it depends on her really, every situation is different.