Comments on: When Does When Need To Be For A Divorce?

By: Poopy

Poopy — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:09 +0000

Why the H*LL are you still with this woman?!?!?
Don’t think you can “fix” her, or make her want to fix herself, because you can’t. The only way she will ever get better is if she figures it out for herself and wants it for herself, and apparently she hasn’t hit rock bottom yet for that realization to occur.
The best thing you can do is save yourself. Get out, get in counseling, move on. Maybe you leaving her @$$ will be the wake-up call she needs to get herself together.
I feel so bad for you, man. Don’t let embarrassment stop you from getting the help you need to move on and build a better life for yourself. I’m so sorry.
Hope this helps.
P.S. Don’t listen to all these people who say YOU need to get her into treatment. You can try, but ultimately it is up to her. She is an adult, and her actions are her own responsibility, not yours. Don’t buy into the guilt/blame game.

By: Wordpress Article Autoposter Plugin

Wordpress Article Autoposter Plugin — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:09 +0000

You NEED to get your wife into treatment NOW! She is going to end up either dead from an overdose, dead from a drug deal gone wrong, or in prison when she gets busted with drugs or buying them. Getting her help is number one, after that you can work on your marriage or decide to end things.

By: J

Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:08 +0000

DIVORCE HER. If you haven’t figured out its what you need to do by now, you’re in serious denial. Also, I’d recommend having her arrested or somehow forced into rehab. She needs a wake up call and help…you need out.

By: ?

Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:08 +0000

Take her to get help and good luck.

By: Hummer H1 Parts

Hummer H1 Parts — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:08 +0000

Oh you poor thing. You have put up with much more than most would. You need to take control of all your accounts immediately. You need to distance yourself form her. You are guilty of enabling her and her addiction. Only way she’ll look at herself and possibly change is if you cut her off completely. Do that for her. And for yourself! It may seem mean but its really a very loving gift. Do it now. Cut her off.

By: nintendo wii mod chip

nintendo wii mod chip — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:07 +0000

Just wanted to say that I agree with Poopy. Unless your wife wants to change and can admit that she has a problem, it won’t get any better. I would suggest that you seek help for yourself in dealing with this terrible mess.
I have an acquaintance who is exactly like your wife. She is addicted to meth and cocaine. I have seen her put three men in the “poor house”. She lies and steals, anything for that next fix. She did 12 months in the State Pen, came out and went right back to her old ways. She has three beautiful kids that she never sees. I feel so bad for you and hope you can find the strength to get out of that situation.