Ok so my family and i often have arguments but it got really nad earlier. My mom said she was hungry and we were going to go to a store and then eat because i wasnt hungry at all. Things changed though and eventually my mom wanted to go to a restaurant right away. I said they could go but i wasnt hungry and that i could take a takeout bag or eat later. She said that wasnt good enough and well she was yelling really loudly in target at me but i kept my voice down. Then we got in the car and everything got worse. It lasted around twenty minutes and i only yelled a few times but nothing was good enough. well i got really mad my mom keeps saying i have an earing disorder. and we are on vacation and my mom says i ruin everything so i said fine send me home. she said i could have gone sooner. later i said that im moving out as soon as we get home and she asked if i though she cared if i left and i said no and she told me to leave because i wasnt doing her any favors by staying. i said mean things but i was calm and really was trying. i just didnt want to eat right there because i was nauseous and full. she kept yelling at me and insulting my appearance. My mom was yelling at my dad that the only thing that would work would be to shake me and was yelling loudly to take me outside and shake me. My dad didnt cause he said he didnt want to be arrested on our vacation. Later things got worse too. I tried talking but my mom yelled at the top of her lungs shut up at me. She said i was awful. I was saying id go to any restaurant she wanted and eat the meal. It was six thirty then and we usually eat at nine to ten. She yelled at me and then she started crying and went up to the hotel and yelled at us to leave. Now i am outside an applebees and then we are going to see my mom. I am on an ipod. I am so scared of my mom but i dont know how to deal with her. I want to stay in the car when my dad goes to the hotel but im not sure if that will work out. I am going to post this outside the hotel but im not sure if i will have to go up im afraid she will get violent. I might not have time to read the answers in time but i hope i will if i get any, im 16 and i just want to know what to do, if i will have to go up to her to fix this or any advice on what to say to her. I also said some mean things but i wasnt insulting her. Thank you
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Maybe your mother has problems that you don’t know about.
Or, she may be really worried about you not eating, anorexia can kill you and she is probably scared for you and your health.
Try to patch it up with her, even if you have to apologize.
Whenever my mom does that to me i just call it child abuse and leave.so you should try that but if that doesn’t work i would pray to the lord and ask to forgive my sins and have my get better.if that doesn’t work i would talk to the schools sociologist.
Your mom doesnt understand who you are. Its something that cannot be fixed in one day, it takes a lifetime. All i can say is, dont frut. As soon as you make some money to support yourself, move out and dont have to listen to that Voicebox anymore.
Tell your mom you love her and you’re sorry you disappointed her, that that wasn’t your intention. Tell her honestly that you just weren’t hungry and weren’t trying to be difficult. Perhaps your mother is having difficulties in her life that don’t pertain to you, but you are feeling the brunt of it? Is there an adult you can talk to? Has your mother been violent in the past? Is your mother overweight and sees your youth and resistance to eat a threat? Perhaps try to talk to her when she’s settled down, tell her how you feel and reassure her that you don’t have a eating disorder…good luck!