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When Does When Need To Be For A Divorce?

admin — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:37:03 +0000

Where do i start? There is no question that I love my wife. For two years i have been married to her. I was the happiest man in the world when the both of us decided to elope back in 2006.
Unfortunatlly i never expected such a dark cloud of suffering during my 2 years of marriage. My wife and I were married back in March of 2006. One month later i found out a horrifying issue that she has. She was addicted to Crack Cocaine and Pain Pills.
I never saw it coming. It was just a mack truck that hit me straight on and it has yet to stop. Before we were married my wife was laid off from her job. She did not take it well at all. She was always upset, always sleeping and i noticed that she was not taking care of her place much anymore. I just thought to myself that this was probably typical when depressed about losing a job.
A couple weeks after we go married i notice odd things missing. I couldnt find my poker set, i couldnt find my watch, i couldnt find my camera..etc.. Since we just moved to a new house i just thought it was just packed up somewhere. After all was unpacked i still didnt find them. Everyweek something would dissapear.
During the same time i would notice that 20 here, 20 there was taken from the ATM a number of times each week…I couldnt figure it out. Sometime in April i needed to leave town for business for 5 days. Everything had been going great until my third day away. I was at a CVS buying a snack and my card was declined. Thinking that maybe i just forgot to move my money from one account to another i made no big deal of it. A couple hours later i was shocked to notice that 3 transactions had been made for 150, 300 and 220 from 9pm to 3am. I called the wife to see why so much was taken out a i couldnt get a hold of her to 24 hours.
After i came home i kept drilling her on why so much $ was taken out and she just said that she owed some people money and that its all taken care of. Naturally that answer was not good enough for me, but i just delt with it.
A week later once again 350 bucks was taken out. I tried to call her but no answer. I did not hear back for 48 hours. I begged and proded and pleaded to her. She finally broke down and told me the truth she was addicted to crack and pain pills and periodically she would have her binges. She promised me it wouldnt happen again and she was getting help.
A week later 500 gone. The continous circle of money concerns, divorce threats, appologies and dissapointments has gone full circle over an infinate number of times. The worst month was in September of 2007 when 2600 had been taken from savings in one month.
There have been a number of things ive tried from controling the money, letting our family know of the issues, selling out second car to make up for bills and to also limit her ability to drive. She just finds ways to still get her fix. From forging my name on my checks to phycolohgically messing with my mind and making me feel horrible for making her feel like i was controling her life.
In my opinion im dont believe that i crossed the line. I gave her money when she asked. All i asked was for reciepts. I would take her to when she wanted to go at ANYTIME of the day or night. i was her personal choffier. But unfortunatllly that wasnt enought in her mind. So what do i do?? Loan her the car. Unfortunatlly there were time where i got the impact of her binges. Many times she would leave me stranded for hours after work and i would just wait. Knowing deep inside the reason she was late was because she wasnt in a state to drive. On average i would be stranded for 5 or 6 hours until she came to get me or if i convinced a friend to drop me off. The worst was when i went to work an event 2 hours away from home Both her an i were working different promotional events. She got out a couple hours before i did. Because of that i gave her the car to get us something to eat…..She never came back. I didnt knopw what to do? My wife had left me to go 2 hours south to get her fix. She kept telling me that she was leaving in 10 minutes…2 hours went to 4 hours, 4 hours when to 6 hours…etc..It was midnight and she still hadnt shown up. I knew i had to walk to a hotel. I arrived at the hotel. Unfortunatlly to my dissapointment the card was declined. I looked in my pocket and only had 50 bucks. The room was 90. I couldnt do anything. I checked my balence and noticed “$0″. I called my wife and told her that i had 0 money and that i could not get a room. She said she would be leaving to get me….I was in the streets for 48 hours until i ran into a lady that was desperate for gas money and needed to go accross the state. After i convinced her i was safe, i gave her my last 40 bucks i had with me and she dropped me off to my car.
I love my wife, but going through this wirlwind of stress at the moment. Its really effecting my health and my job. At the same time i dont vent to anyone since i am JUST SO EMBARRASED about the wh

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Why Are Doctors So Terrible When It Comes To Handling Money?

admin — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:42:40 +0000

My dad is a doctor, and he’s a complete idiot when it comes to handling money. He’s juvenile. He doesn’t know how to handle money. He doesn’t understand the concept of it. He’s always getting himself into money problems. He won’t pay his bills if he has to do it himself, and not my mom. He runs up credit card debt all the time. I’m older, so I understand now what his problems are. Apparently, he has been getting himself into trouble when he was younger too. He almost got our house foreclosed when he quit his job to write books. He’s not crazy or anything, but I think he’s suffering from some sort of egomania. He’s the kind of person that will wait until the last possible minute to do anything, be it paying a bill or even getting a hotel room in a distant city.
I talked to a few people, and it seems many doctors are like this. I don’t get it at all. My mom is passive and is not assertive enough to get through to him. I absolutely can’t stand him anymore but I understand that any creditors would treat him differently than they would anyone else, so he probably knows he can get out of these problems easier than anyone else. He doesn’t like paying anyone back. It’s really easy for unscrupulous people to get money out of him though.
Let me put this plainly: I sympathize with his creditors. He’s not working a job or anything that will pay him enough to pay his bills. He gets boatloads of offers for better-paying jobs in the mail all the time. He probably gets calls. He’s on this hangup about becoming a reverend, and he’s working an on-call service that doesn’t pay much.
Let me put this plainly: He’s delusional about his financial situation. I really wish my mom was smart enough to leave him a long time ago, but she’s pretty passive and not that smart. He’s 60; he’s never going to be able to retire at this rate. He doesn’t get it. WTF is his goddamn problem? Why are many doctors like this? Can he ever be trusted, or learn how to handle money? He has a big ego, and a very bad temper.
Anyone dealt with idiots like him before?

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Does Anyone Know When There Are Cheap Travel Deals For Miami Beach?

admin — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 05:50:34 +0000

I know so far that Travelocity is the cheapest to purchase last minute travel deals. I am leaving fron Toronto, and going to Miami. I would like to stay on the beach..the hotel I really like is Called Fontainbleu.
Does anyone know when there are really good deals (seasonal) and if there are any other websites that are better than traveloctiy.?

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When To Book A Trip To The Dominican?

admin — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 04:36:57 +0000

We are trying to plan a trip to Punta Cana and we are trying to decide when is best to book it to get a good deal without too much trouble. Should we try and book it now or risk waiting until closer to the date (by the way is mid to late Feb) for the last minute deals. There is going to be between 6 and 8 of us and we want to be sure to all be on the same flight and all get rooms close to each other in the hotel.
also do they have american style food available in the dominican?

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