I was married last Friday. A very high class ceremony with all the trimmings. Anyway, a long story short:
We did all the normal stuff – speeches, dinner, 1st dance…. However, I will admit, I did rush through greeting / thanking all the guests so I could grab the ‘gift box’ filled with all the money envelopes.
I finished the last table & told my wife I had to use the men’s room – instead a took the box to our room and counted all the money. It was eating me alive to see how much these people gave. No family of 4 at my wedding is giving $35 and getting away with it!!
About 90 minutes later my wife and some other concerned guests found me in the hotel room. I explained what I was doing but they were very angry. They even SWORE at me!!!
I really was not gone that long & don’t think it is that big of a deal. I wanted to make sure we made a profit on the wedding.
She is still fuming mad – states she was embarrassed. What is wrong so wrong with what I did?
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Ok so my family and i often have arguments but it got really nad earlier. My mom said she was hungry and we were going to go to a store and then eat because i wasnt hungry at all. Things changed though and eventually my mom wanted to go to a restaurant right away. I said they could go but i wasnt hungry and that i could take a takeout bag or eat later. She said that wasnt good enough and well she was yelling really loudly in target at me but i kept my voice down. Then we got in the car and everything got worse. It lasted around twenty minutes and i only yelled a few times but nothing was good enough. well i got really mad my mom keeps saying i have an earing disorder. and we are on vacation and my mom says i ruin everything so i said fine send me home. she said i could have gone sooner. later i said that im moving out as soon as we get home and she asked if i though she cared if i left and i said no and she told me to leave because i wasnt doing her any favors by staying. i said mean things but i was calm and really was trying. i just didnt want to eat right there because i was nauseous and full. she kept yelling at me and insulting my appearance. My mom was yelling at my dad that the only thing that would work would be to shake me and was yelling loudly to take me outside and shake me. My dad didnt cause he said he didnt want to be arrested on our vacation. Later things got worse too. I tried talking but my mom yelled at the top of her lungs shut up at me. She said i was awful. I was saying id go to any restaurant she wanted and eat the meal. It was six thirty then and we usually eat at nine to ten. She yelled at me and then she started crying and went up to the hotel and yelled at us to leave. Now i am outside an applebees and then we are going to see my mom. I am on an ipod. I am so scared of my mom but i dont know how to deal with her. I want to stay in the car when my dad goes to the hotel but im not sure if that will work out. I am going to post this outside the hotel but im not sure if i will have to go up im afraid she will get violent. I might not have time to read the answers in time but i hope i will if i get any, im 16 and i just want to know what to do, if i will have to go up to her to fix this or any advice on what to say to her. I also said some mean things but i wasnt insulting her. Thank you
My husband & I have been happily married for 9 years and enjoy spending time with each other. But he’s not much of a social person. He doesn’t like to do any activity involving other people. He’s been that way ever since I’ve known him so I’m okay with that except when it comes to family. It bothers me that he never spends time with family- his or mine. I live close to my family but he’ll never go visit and they’re not welcome in our home. If I want to invite them he always complains and threatens to leave the house. This always causes an argument so I end up never inviting family or friends over. I invited 2 cousins over to watch the Superbowl this year. When I got home from church he hid the projector so we couldn’t watch TV. My cousins already had plans & couldn’t come. I told him but he still wouldn’t speak to me all day.
We’ve been in our home almost 4 years and I can think of maybe 2 occasions where I’ve had family/friends over. He goes in the bedroom and will not come out until they’re gone. He calls or texts me constantly asking when they’re leaving. For holidays, I always go visit them alone and have to hear the endless “Where’s DH?” “What is DH doing? Why didn’t he come?” It’s very upsetting and stressful for me so I don’t visit them as I often as I should. Maybe just a 2-3 times a year and they live 15 minutes away.
Last weekend my great aunt died, the last of 13 siblings. A lot of family from other states will be coming to the funeral. My husband & I have the largest home of my local relatives and I want to open our home up for whoever needs a place to stay. I told him this and was met with the usual resistance. He asked why they can’t stay in a hotel! This is Very upsetting for me. I already have to deal with my aunt’s death (she was like my 3rd grandmother). I don’t want to deal with his insensitivity or harassment about having people over. But I don’t want family stay in hotel unless they just want to. I don’t know how many are coming but we have enough relatives to fill up everyone’s home, not just mine. Is there anything I can do to get him to be okay with this? Or at least not cause any extra stress?
What kills me is the 1 or 2 times we’ve ever had overnight guests were from his friends and I never gave him any lip about it.
OK…so here’s the deal. I’m 13. I’m homeschooled. My mother works at a hotel near my house, so I hang out there all the time. During a cold day last winter, I met someone my age at the hotel. He was really sweet, and I still talk to him. We hung out in the sauna the whole night, because we were really cold. Nothing happened in there. I just put my head on his shoulder. I really liked him, and I still talk to him over the internet. He lives pretty close, about 45 minutes. He’ll come back to the hotel again during the summer or winter.
I felt that he liked me…idk, just the way that he looked at me. He stared at me and smiled a lot, and I really liked him too. I wanted to kiss him badly, but do you think that would have been weird if I had? Would he have thought that I was a sl*t or something?
Should I kiss him next time I see him?
But I don’t want to drive him away or something by kissing him.
He kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, and tells me when I talk to him if he has a gf
You are a flight attendant. It is Christmas Eve, and there is chaos all around. The winter storm is almost nation-wide, and the delays have been maddening. You feel sorry for the ticket agents dealing with angry passengers. For most of the day, you have been dealing with passengers who are generally happy; between the time that they have made it on the flight and are going home, and the time they find out their luggage has been lost.
You are well rested. Despite full hotels the company had managed to secure rooms for you and your fellow crewmembers, but you heard other crews were not so fortunate. This 5-hour cross-country flight will bring all the crewmembers home. You promised your 6 and 7 year old kids that Santa would come through, that you would be home for Christmas… but you should have been home 3 days ago. Repeated cancelled flights and last minute scheduling changes has led to this unfortunate situation.
You are the in-charge flight attendant, there are six others on board. They are mostly new-hires, not senior enough to take these days off. Then again, you couldn’t get these days off either. You have been together for the past five days. Today in particular has been very long, this will be your third flight. Your duty time is about to run out. You already received an extension, but that too is running out.
You have been on this plane trying to depart for the past 4 hours now. The plane had been deiced, but weather came in. The pilots waited for the weather to clear, but needed to be deiced again. Then sitting in line to depart for so long burning gas, the plane needed to be refueled. Then deiced again. Once again you are in line to depart.
You look at your watch. That’s it. If you took off right now and the flight time was all timely, you would arrive 1 minute over your duty time. You would be knowingly violating company policy. You may also be violating federal air regulations as well, but you don’t know for sure.
You look up at a fellow flight attendant. She too is looking at her watch. She looks up, forces a smile, then quickly looks away. Does she know? The two pilots will be making their first and only flight of the day, but you and your six fellow flight attendants are all in violation. Nobody says a word…
You are called to the flight deck. The captain looks at you and tells you “Alright. Forecast weather at the destination is very good, so lots of guys diverting there. Dispatch tells me average hold time to land is about 45 minutes. Good thing we refueled, we can hold for hours if we have to. Here everything is shutting down. Some really bad stuff is blowing in from the west within the hour. Good thing we’re eastbound. Couple guys were asked to return to the gate, but apparently there are no gates to return to. Some arrivals have been waiting 30 minutes for ramp crews to move empty planes out of the gates. They aren’t letting any departures go. Heard some guys who were waiting for pushback, are now deplaning. Glad that wasn’t us. Now I don’t know what is going on, the runways look fine. They probably ran out of deicing fluid, or maybe someone crashed their truck on the ramp. Nobody’s letting me know.”
You listen to the roar as another aircraft departs.
“We’ll probably be the last plane to leave today. Four hours behind schedule, but it will be good to be home. Just wanted to update you on the situation before take-off. The passengers aren’t getting anxious are they? Is the crew still ready to go?”
The first officer looks over to the Captain and tells him they’re next for take-off.
What do you do?
ABC News’ Matthew Jaffe Reports: Sen. Joe Biden, D-Del., on Sunday guaranteed that if elected, Sen. Barack Obama., D-Ill., will be tested by an international crisis within his first six months in power and he will need supporters to stand by him as he makes tough, and possibly unpopular, decisions.
“Mark my words,” the Democratic vice presidential nominee warned at the second of his two Seattle fundraisers Sunday. “It will not be six months before the world tests Barack Obama like they did John Kennedy. The world is looking. We’re about to elect a brilliant 47-year-old senator president of the United States of America. Remember I said it standing here if you don’t remember anything else I said. Watch, we’re gonna have an international crisis, a generated crisis, to test the mettle of this guy.”
“I can give you at least four or five scenarios from where it might originate,” Biden said to Emerald City supporters, mentioning the Middle East and Russia as possibilities. “And he’s gonna need help. And the kind of help he’s gonna need is, he’s gonna need you – not financially to help him – we’re gonna need you to use your influence, your influence within the community, to stand with him. Because it’s not gonna be apparent initially, it’s not gonna be apparent that we’re right.”
Not only will the next administration have to deal with foreign affairs issues, Biden warned, but also with the current economic crisis.
“Gird your loins,” Biden told the crowd. “We’re gonna win with your help, God willing, we’re gonna win, but this is not gonna be an easy ride. This president, the next president, is gonna be left with the most significant task. It’s like cleaning the Augean stables, man. This is more than just, this is more than – think about it, literally, think about it – this is more than just a capital crisis, this is more than just markets. This is a systemic problem we have with this economy.”
The Delaware lawmaker managed to rake in an estimated $1 million total from his two money hauls at the downtown Sheraton, the same hotel where four years ago Sen. John Kerry, D-Mass., clinched the Democratic nomination. Despite warning about the difficulties the next administration will face, Biden said the Democratic ticket is equipped to meet the challenges head on.
“I’ve forgotten more about foreign policy than most of my colleagues know, so I’m not being falsely humble with you. I think I can be value added, but this guy has it,” the Senate Foreign Relations chairman said of Obama. “This guy has it. But he’s gonna need your help. Because I promise you, you all are gonna be sitting here a year from now going, ‘Oh my God, why are they there in the polls? Why is the polling so down? Why is this thing so tough?’ We’re gonna have to make some incredibly tough decisions in the first two years. So I’m asking you now, I’m asking you now, be prepared to stick with us. Remember the faith you had at this point because you’re going to have to reinforce us.”
“There are gonna be a lot of you who want to go, ‘Whoa, wait a minute, yo, whoa, whoa, I don’t know about that decision’,” Biden continued. “Because if you think the decision is sound when they’re made, which I believe you will when they’re made, they’re not likely to be as popular as they are sound. Because if they’re popular, they’re probably not sound.”
Biden emphasized that the mountainous Afghanistan-Pakistan border is of particular concern, with Osama bin Laden “alive and well” and Pakistan “bristling with nuclear weapons.”
“You literally can see what these kids are up against, our kids in that region,” Biden said in recalling when his helicopter was forced down due to a snowstorm there. “The place is crawling with al Qaeda. And it’s real.”
“We do not have the military capacity, nor have we ever, quite frankly, in the last 20 years, to dictate outcomes,” he cautioned. “It’s so much more important than that. It’s so much more complicated than that. And Barack gets it.”
After speaking for just over a quarter of an hour, Biden noticed the media presence in the back of the small ballroom.
“I probably shouldn’t have said all this because it dawned on me that the press is here,” he joked.
“All kidding aside, these guys have left us in a God-awful place,” he then said of the Bush regime, promptly wrapping up his remarks. “We have the ability to straighten it out. It’s gonna take a little bit of time, so I ask you to stay with us. Stay with us.”
I guess the question may also be is Senator Obama ready for what might lay ahead????
We are taking a trip and there are 3 of us that need a total of 2 beds – it is much cheaper if you say there are only 2 people — how can they really know if a third one is staying too? In a large hotel I think it is hard to keep track of everyone and no one would notice – there are still 2 beds in there…Couldn’t we just say the last person joined us last minute long after the reservation was made and we didn’t think about it? What could/would happen? Anyone deal with this before??
thanks –
We will most likely still tell them 3 people — but i was just wondering…
4 friends & I are going to NY 10/30 to 11/5 for the NY Phil-a-thon, a concert series at the Nokia theater. All 5 of us are around 25 years old, & easy going hippies.
We need a place to stay, info on which airport, and how we can keep our trip at low cost. Looking at websites and reviews aren’t really helping.
How cold will it be during that time?
Is it busier or more expensive because of the dates we are going on?
Will we get better deals if we book in advance or wait last minute?
What else is going on during Halloween and Day of the Dead?
Which airport do you recommend so we don’t have to sacrifice too much money on getting into NY or a hotel?
Thanks for your help!
I have 2 questions…
The first one is more important than the second…
1. I have wanted to go to Vegas for quite awhile. I’m on a tight budget. I’m looking for a website where i can find last minute cancelation deals. I need to go from JFK airport Las Vegas and i need a hotel room. Where can i get a good deal?
2. Is there anything fun kids to do in Vegas?

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