It all started when two girls wanted to experience being with a girl. I met this girl last year from a dating site and she also wanted to experience it. She told me she has boyfriend and just wanted to see how it is. When we met she was so nervous she couldn’t look me in the eye. After a couple of weeks, we experience our first kiss. In which, it was great. It felt weird at first but at the same time it was a wonderful experience and I liked it. One month passes by and we rent a hotel and experience our first time being with a girl. We both were nervous and didn’t know what to do. Somehow we did it. Let me tell you it was weird but great at the same time. We both got what we wanted. But after experiencing our first sex encounter. We wanted more so we started to see more of each other. Within time we started to feel some kind of feeling for each other, even though she has a bf. I told her how I actually feel about her and I express my feeling to her, and then she did too. I told her we couldn’t see each other because I didn’t want my feeling to get deeper, due to the fact that she has a bf.
She said no that she still wanted to see me and that her relationship with her bf was already messed up. They already been having problem. So I stay and continue to see her more and more. So I ended up falling in love with this girl, and supposely she did too. When had a relationship going as a couple even though she was living with her bf. As time passes by she was getting jealous when I spend time when a guy that I used to dated. I told her not to worry we are only friends and nothing more then that. But she knew the guy like me a lot. So I told her, you have a bf and I’m sure you go out with him. She said that it different because when she goes out with him they don’t kiss or hugs. I told her it doesn’t matter you did go out with him.
As time continue to pass by, by February of this year our relationship was getting worse.We started to agrue a lot, and we hardly saw much of each other. I broke up with her a couple of times, but we always got back together. I forgive her and she forgav me for my mistakes. There was time when she spend most of the time with friends and not me. I also expressed my feeling to her but she always took it as if I was complaining to her. As time passing by we argue more and more and less time. She was very outspoken and rude when we argued most of the time, and that got to me a lot. She disrespected me most of the time and she was very inpatient and wanted her ways. I’m very simple and wasn’t as delicated as she was. She lived like 40 minutes away and I drove most of the time, due to she would complain that its too far. If I wanted to do something with her and she didn’t like where we were going. She were complain and end up not going and we ended up doing what she wanted. I said something to her. She complain. I’m the type of person that doesn’t like to argue a lot. So instead of listening to her argue if we didn’t agree on something. I would let her get her way. She always though of me negative, for example just recently she applied for a job and her interview went well and she got the job. But the company she applied too had to send the paper to coorparate, in which they did. She got a call yesterday saying that she didn’t get the job after all due to her D.U.I. She was disappointed and she thought I wanted her not to get the job. I told her she was wrong, I was happy that she actually got the job. she makes it seem that I’m a bad person when all I did was supporting her and being there for her.
Well just two days ago I broke up with her for the last time and I told her that its final. I couldn’t take it anymore. Despite all that, I’m in love with her and I miss her like crazy. I don’t know what to do now, I know it a very difficult situation to deal with. I don’t know if I should call her or just wait and give her sometime. I want her back but I said it final.
Please any advice I would appreciated.
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okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
was the day we got married but that was the ceramony May 23rd but ervyone thinks its was May 23rd is the date that we got married. Anyway back to the crazy stuff so the respect that I had for her cousin dropped because I was unaware of him and that was sick to me.
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Let me start by telling you this I am a 24 year old young man, I was homeless in December of 2008. I went to a salvation army to try to get some help. I walked in to get the help and this is what happened. A women in her mid-40’s called me back to her office, she said a comment I believe she said I would be glad to help you in a way that was flirtatious. I then sat in her office and begun to tell her about my homeless situation. I told her that I was battling with drug addiction and that that was the main reason why I was in this situation. She worked diligently to provide help to me in a caring way. I received 1 day in a hotel and 2 meals to soothe my appetite which did’nt really helped me but I was thankful for that. Before I left her office which was on a friday, she told me to come back Monday so she could further assist me. So Monday rolls around, and I step into her office and she begun to tell me that she was going to do everything that she could to help me, I was excited that someone actually started to give a dame. So she tried to get a hold of people she knew to help me. Then to my surprise she told me to load my things into her van and at 3:00 she would take me to get help. So we left at 3:00 I asked where we were going and she said that she is going to take me to her place until she could find a place for me to go. We went by the school to pick her kids up four girls. I did not know she had this many children the ages are 9,9,8, and 7, and two boys I latter found out that are 22 and 25 that live in other states. Now this was a situation that I was unexpectently unaware of what I was getting myself into. So some time went by maybe a month and we started to get closer to one another. It started when she decided to sit right next to me while watching a movie. That went on for a week than I asked the question would you like to start a relationship, and she was like ummmmmmm…. sure. Here we are now dating two months went bye and she started to give me the hint that I should marry her, I was saying that we should give it about 1 year before we start even thinking about that, then she said it should not matter if you love me and I love you then what are we waiting for. I could not anwser. Then we decide to get married March 1, 2009 and it was just me her best friend and her best friends husband and of couse her. I was very happy that she wanted to start a relationship I was on top of the world and our relationship was terrific, it was an act of god so I thought. I did not tell my parents and she did’nt either. The only ones that knew was the four of us and latter I told my sister. Life to me was great and I thought my world was so full and had purpose. We or should I say she took it even futher and she and then I went with it decided to buy a house 2,000 down and 500 dollars a month I thought was a bad ideal and I told her what my feelings were, but she conviced me that this was a gift god had giving to the family so we did bought a house right down the road from her cousin Mike older gentalmen in his early 60’s and he was more then likely kinda gave her a push to buy a house there, good school system and alot of great things to do there. Anyways the move took at least a month and it was totally an unorganized last min hurry up type of move. Nothing was organized before the move she owed this little construction company and we did a remodel job which I have lots of experience in the consrction industry it was time consuming and that ate at our profit. I felt like she manupuliated the customer into going with her ideals her plan and it was latter a bad deal on the customers side the job was left unfished and she when she did work on that place did a shity job, know pride. I knew it was not right and told her that the way that was hanlded was wrong but it was to her way of thinking the customers fault and she got a deal, and after time she latter conviced me enough that I agreed but in the back of my mind did’nt. Back to the move we move in the place was unliveable the place had not been occupied in 2 years, and it was for the most part a wreck. We end up using the profit from that job for the move. We start making the place livable during the moved rather then before that made things crazy. Now I get a job at a factory she stays home with the kids to work on the house by this time the kids were on summer break. So the plan was she stay home with the kids for the summer which she wanted and work on the house while I went to work at a factory which I latter became miserible. Now all of this going on at that time I started to ge
okay this is a long story, but please help me out. okay i met this guy on a 9 day cruise. he was on the cruise with all of his cousins, and i was on it with my best friend. we met the 1st night and hung out with all of them every single night of the cruise. the first 3 nights we hung out as a group, and then the 4th we were in a group, and this guy was showing us different magic tricks. he then wanted to try a card trick, and i happened to have cards in my room, he came with me to my room, and there was nobody in there, but he didnt even take advantage of that. we went back to the other room and he showed us card tricks, it was a lot of fun, and he was really sweet. he then left with one of his cousins to go to the casino, and i asked if he was coming back and he promised me in 20 minutes, and kissed me on the cheek. and he came back in 15 minutes 
. we were hanging out then we had alone time and spent the entire night talking. he told me right away “dont think im gay..id be all over you..but you made out with my brother last night” (i only made out with his brother the night before nothing else at all). it was understandable, and he didnt even try anything but the topic of me being a virgin came up. he didnt believe me that i was, and then he told me to wait for someone i really like and then he said “and its not going to be me.” he asked me that night also if me and him were going to be hanging out the next night, and i said yes. then my drunk friend walked in and had to throw up in the toilet, and i had to pee, so the guy walked me to his room to use his bathroom, and once again nobody was in there, but he didnt even take advantage. we went back to my room and continued talking. my friend was then like..”would you kiss her already” and he said..”only if she says yes”..so i said yes, and then i teased him and said “oh i thought nothing could happen cause i was with your brother”..and he said “oh man i forgot about that i liked you, and now you reminded me of that”..so he stopped kissing me but then i continued. he then slept over and layed with me that night. the next night my friend got him from the casino. he came into my room, sat on the bed, and i went to go lay with him. we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i said yes, and we had our privacy now. we were talking about how he won money, and then i layed on the bed, he followed, and he did everything to me, i didnt do a single thing to him. we then ended up having sex in the moment, it was great. but during it he said “some guys dont last this long”..which was kinda cocky, and he was prob trying to not sound gay and be a man. i did like him a lot but i said “i thought you told me to wait for the person i really like”..and he said “you could like me”..after sex, he got pants for me, and walked me to my room with his arm around me. we were about to go in, but his cousin walked by and we went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush, but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there..which was really sweet:). i got there and told him i was tired, and i was going back to my room. he said he would come back in a little while, and sure enough he did, and he slept over and layed with me. the next day he came looking for me, but i was in a room with two of his guy cousins, and my best friend. nothing was happening at all, but my best friend was drunk and wouldnt let the guy in. he was asking her if i was in there, and where i was cause he wanted to hang out. i noticed he was mad at me, and we didnt talk for 2 nights, even though we were hanging out in a group. the 8th night finally he confronted me about it and told me he thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt and he even asked my friend what the deal with me was. she told him that i like him and i wasnt with any other guys, and he nodded and smiled in approval. that night we hung out the entire night talking, me, this guy, and my best friend. he always includes my best friend, and never makes her feel left out. eventually one of his cousins came in the room to hang out with my friend, and we got some alone time. we ended up having sex, and he was constantly asking me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop and if i was in pain. i was in pain for whatever reason, and we had to stop for a little while. he then suggested trying it without the condom to see what it feels like. i said yes, cause he asked me, he didnt just take it off without me knowing, which made me really happy. he then said “you might have to give me head”..im assuming to finish? or to make it hard again? but i didnt do it anyway, even though he pleasured me all the time. it felt a whole lot better, and he asked me if it hurt still or if it felt good and if i wanted him to stop. and he said “babe you need to let me know if it hurts.” earlier in the night he was holding my hand and calling me his gf on the cruise, and if i lived near him wed be gf and bf, and were gonna get married. because it just so happens im going to college near him, and he knows this. he asked if we were spending the whole next day together and we were talking about how it was technically our last night together. so after sex he slept over again and layed with me. the last night we just hung out the entire night and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. right after the cruise, he contacted me the exact day we got home. we’ve been in contact for 11 months, and we’ve seen eachother twice since the cruise. the first time was only 20 minutes, but the second time was 2 hours, and nothing happened. he texted me right after the second visit saying “thanks for coming cant wait to see you again”..and later when i told him to have fun he said “all my fun left at 12″…then two nights later he texted me again and we were talking about him visiting me and going to the city, and he said “way rather see you then the city”..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, id rather see you. then one time he messed up plans cause i was near where he lived, and we were supposed to hang out. and he knew he messed up cause he called me that night saying “i dont care how much it costs, ill get a hotel room at your hotel, and your friends can come, and we’ll all hang out cause i wanna see you so badly”..but i told him it was too late. 5 days later, he calls me to apologize once again. it was really sweet, and showed he really cares. he said “you never write me anymore and let’s keep this long distance relationship going”
did he use me then like me..or did he like me the whole time?
does he like me a lot?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
SORRY THIS IS REALLLLLLY LONG
I met this guy at a bar playing pool. He seemed really nice and we talked all night. He came over to my place and we were just watching movies with my friend and my room mate. He left around 5 in the morning because he had work at 8 and had to catch the first bart train back to his house. He only lives a 15 minute bart train ride away. So the next day he was gonna go to lake tahoe with friends and he said he had a really nice time and that he’d call me when he got back. So a few days went by and my friends kept urging me to text him to ask him out. So finally I did and he replied saying that he would be in the city around 9 and hed call me. So he texted me the next day asking me if I wanted to go to this dance club with him his school was throwing in the city. So I agreed because it sounded fun, and it’s the first guy I’ve been interested in in so long ha. So we met up and I arrived and we had a such a fun time, we kissed, and fooled around he paid for the cab ride home and I invited him in. We fooled around but no sex. I feel really bad because I felt like I was being such a tease but I just didn’t want to come off as a ho. Anyway the whole night he was complimenting me, and the next morning he had wok at 8 in the morning again so he left early. And texted me three times that day after he left. So the third time we hung out I met his dad and dad’s girlfriend that came up from hunnington beach. It was really weird because I told him I was in his town and he invited me to this bike store where his dad was buying him a racing bike. His dad and dad’s girlfriend were really nice it was just a little uncomfortable because I barely knew their son.. He invited me to dinner and this bar in the city later that night with his family and two of his friends. I didnt go to the dinner because I freaked out a little since I didnt know these people that well yet, I didnt want to make a fool out of myself. So he texted me that they were done with dinner and heading out to the bar. I met them and he paid for my drinks at this really nice bar and was holding my hand under the table, the booths were really small and intimate. And then his parents went back to their hotel to sleep and the rest of us went to another bar by my house. Afterwards he came over to my house and we fooled around again but I still didn’t give up sex because we were quite intoxicated. The next morning he didnt seem to mind he was cuddling with me all morning and kissing my head in my sleep. Then he invited me out to have breakfast with his parents before they leave. Their hotel was only 5 blocks from my house. I accepted and we hung out the whole day, even after his parents left. When he left he gave me a kiss and texted me that night with “i had a really good time, have a nice night!” That was the last time we hung out which was a week ago. After that I would text him in between and sometimes would get a text back from him hours after I sent it or no reply at all. This is where the mixed signals come in. I also invited him out to an event this weekend and he said he couldnt make it because he just realized how behind he was in his school work since last weekend. I said that’s okay, next time. and then he texted me with “i have a little gift for u”. He works at a perservatory in his college. so he has to deal with a lot of old artifacts, etc. and when I asked him about the gift he said “150 bc mummy dust and some fragmented scrolls”. It threw me off so I replied with “that sounds great! I have a book for you to read” now that I think back on it I feel so SILLY for saying that because I just realized he was joking.. Anyway, what I really want to know is if this guy is still interested in me or not? I am usually the one initiating the conversation through text from now on. This guy seems like a good catch, I really like his personality I just don’t know how to pursue him or if I even should? I am not used to pursuing anybody. I like this guy because he keeps me on my toes unlike anyone I’ve ever met, and he’s quite a gentleman, and we’ve only hung out 4 times! what should I do in this situation? and yes I am an over analyzer. ha.
Ok so my family and i often have arguments but it got really nad earlier. My mom said she was hungry and we were going to go to a store and then eat because i wasnt hungry at all. Things changed though and eventually my mom wanted to go to a restaurant right away. I said they could go but i wasnt hungry and that i could take a takeout bag or eat later. She said that wasnt good enough and well she was yelling really loudly in target at me but i kept my voice down. Then we got in the car and everything got worse. It lasted around twenty minutes and i only yelled a few times but nothing was good enough. well i got really mad my mom keeps saying i have an earing disorder. and we are on vacation and my mom says i ruin everything so i said fine send me home. she said i could have gone sooner. later i said that im moving out as soon as we get home and she asked if i though she cared if i left and i said no and she told me to leave because i wasnt doing her any favors by staying. i said mean things but i was calm and really was trying. i just didnt want to eat right there because i was nauseous and full. she kept yelling at me and insulting my appearance. My mom was yelling at my dad that the only thing that would work would be to shake me and was yelling loudly to take me outside and shake me. My dad didnt cause he said he didnt want to be arrested on our vacation. Later things got worse too. I tried talking but my mom yelled at the top of her lungs shut up at me. She said i was awful. I was saying id go to any restaurant she wanted and eat the meal. It was six thirty then and we usually eat at nine to ten. She yelled at me and then she started crying and went up to the hotel and yelled at us to leave. Now i am outside an applebees and then we are going to see my mom. I am on an ipod. I am so scared of my mom but i dont know how to deal with her. I want to stay in the car when my dad goes to the hotel but im not sure if that will work out. I am going to post this outside the hotel but im not sure if i will have to go up im afraid she will get violent. I might not have time to read the answers in time but i hope i will if i get any, im 16 and i just want to know what to do, if i will have to go up to her to fix this or any advice on what to say to her. I also said some mean things but i wasnt insulting her. Thank you
Hey so my friends and I were going to stay at the Venetian, but two more decided to come and now we need two rooms, and that would be tooooo expensive at the Venetian, so does anyone know where we can get some last minute deals for rooms on the strip? Nothing cheap like Circus Circus,Excalibur. I’m looking at places like MGM, T.i, somewhere with some decent looking rooms. Were staying Fri,Sat, and Sun. Are there any places you can get deals for around $400-500 maybe even cheaper(3days). We are leaving in a 5-6 weeks and prices have rose!
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