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It all started when two girls wanted to experience being with a girl. I met this girl last year from a dating site and she also wanted to experience it. She told me she has boyfriend and just wanted to see how it is. When we met she was so nervous she couldn’t look me in the eye. After a couple of weeks, we experience our first kiss. In which, it was great. It felt weird at first but at the same time it was a wonderful experience and I liked it. One month passes by and we rent a hotel and experience our first time being with a girl. We both were nervous and didn’t know what to do. Somehow we did it. Let me tell you it was weird but great at the same time. We both got what we wanted. But after experiencing our first sex encounter. We wanted more so we started to see more of each other. Within time we started to feel some kind of feeling for each other, even though she has a bf. I told her how I actually feel about her and I express my feeling to her, and then she did too. I told her we couldn’t see each other because I didn’t want my feeling to get deeper, due to the fact that she has a bf.
She said no that she still wanted to see me and that her relationship with her bf was already messed up. They already been having problem. So I stay and continue to see her more and more. So I ended up falling in love with this girl, and supposely she did too. When had a relationship going as a couple even though she was living with her bf. As time passes by she was getting jealous when I spend time when a guy that I used to dated. I told her not to worry we are only friends and nothing more then that. But she knew the guy like me a lot. So I told her, you have a bf and I’m sure you go out with him. She said that it different because when she goes out with him they don’t kiss or hugs. I told her it doesn’t matter you did go out with him.
As time continue to pass by, by February of this year our relationship was getting worse.We started to agrue a lot, and we hardly saw much of each other. I broke up with her a couple of times, but we always got back together. I forgive her and she forgav me for my mistakes. There was time when she spend most of the time with friends and not me. I also expressed my feeling to her but she always took it as if I was complaining to her. As time passing by we argue more and more and less time. She was very outspoken and rude when we argued most of the time, and that got to me a lot. She disrespected me most of the time and she was very inpatient and wanted her ways. I’m very simple and wasn’t as delicated as she was. She lived like 40 minutes away and I drove most of the time, due to she would complain that its too far. If I wanted to do something with her and she didn’t like where we were going. She were complain and end up not going and we ended up doing what she wanted. I said something to her. She complain. I’m the type of person that doesn’t like to argue a lot. So instead of listening to her argue if we didn’t agree on something. I would let her get her way. She always though of me negative, for example just recently she applied for a job and her interview went well and she got the job. But the company she applied too had to send the paper to coorparate, in which they did. She got a call yesterday saying that she didn’t get the job after all due to her D.U.I. She was disappointed and she thought I wanted her not to get the job. I told her she was wrong, I was happy that she actually got the job. she makes it seem that I’m a bad person when all I did was supporting her and being there for her.
Well just two days ago I broke up with her for the last time and I told her that its final. I couldn’t take it anymore. Despite all that, I’m in love with her and I miss her like crazy. I don’t know what to do now, I know it a very difficult situation to deal with. I don’t know if I should call her or just wait and give her sometime. I want her back but I said it final.
Please any advice I would appreciated.
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
I pretty much came from nothing, but managed to get out in time to keep my sanity, educate myself, and make a decent honest lifestyle. I married and immediately moved away from family which was one of the best decisions of my life. Here’s the thing…
When I go home to visit, I have 2 choices:
1. Stay with family that will steal everything I have from panties (i know gross) to whatever they can get there hands on
2. Stay with a nice family member with a huge infestation
Another huge problem is that the minute I hit home my family does nothing but beg from me, and it gets irritating, so not only do I have to deal with the stealing, I get begged from the entire time. So I learned a while ago that it’s best for my husband and I to stay in hotels. Somehow my family still manages to steal things from me, and pretty much get me for something. I have never left home without something coming up missing before I get on the plane. I try so hard to plan my trip out wisely but somehow someway something gets stolen. Last year my ipod came up missing, and it was the touch and was my most favorite and was personally engraved by my husband.
Although I am staying in a hotel, what steps can I make to assure that I won’t get stolen from? I already bought a swingpack which you can out over the body and keep on you at all times.
My husband feels like I should leave every at home, my wedding ring, laptop, camera, ipod, and other things but that’s the reason we have it all. I have realized my family will never ever change so I have to take precautions, and be smart about everything.
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