We’ve made the drive several times w/ one baby/ child but never with two. [Ahhh!] I sent my father-in-law a text video of the boys this past weekend and within 5 minutes he called begging us to come up to visit and told us a check for fuel was in the mail. We have a 3 1/2 year old and a 6 month old. Last time we left around 8pm and our 3 year old slept all night and we made some good time. Would you do the same thing or just leave in the morning and get a hotel room? Which would be better and why? (If we left at night we could alternate sleeping so that’s not a big deal.) Time and money isn’t a huge issue, I just want to do what is best for the boys sake so that they aren’t too uncomfortable. Thanks!
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Friday, November 06th, 2009 / admin
It all started when two girls wanted to experience being with a girl. I met this girl last year from a dating site and she also wanted to experience it. She told me she has boyfriend and just wanted to see how it is. When we met she was so nervous she couldn’t look me in the eye. After a couple of weeks, we experience our first kiss. In which, it was great. It felt weird at first but at the same time it was a wonderful experience and I liked it. One month passes by and we rent a hotel and experience our first time being with a girl. We both were nervous and didn’t know what to do. Somehow we did it. Let me tell you it was weird but great at the same time. We both got what we wanted. But after experiencing our first sex encounter. We wanted more so we started to see more of each other. Within time we started to feel some kind of feeling for each other, even though she has a bf. I told her how I actually feel about her and I express my feeling to her, and then she did too. I told her we couldn’t see each other because I didn’t want my feeling to get deeper, due to the fact that she has a bf.
She said no that she still wanted to see me and that her relationship with her bf was already messed up. They already been having problem. So I stay and continue to see her more and more. So I ended up falling in love with this girl, and supposely she did too. When had a relationship going as a couple even though she was living with her bf. As time passes by she was getting jealous when I spend time when a guy that I used to dated. I told her not to worry we are only friends and nothing more then that. But she knew the guy like me a lot. So I told her, you have a bf and I’m sure you go out with him. She said that it different because when she goes out with him they don’t kiss or hugs. I told her it doesn’t matter you did go out with him.
As time continue to pass by, by February of this year our relationship was getting worse.We started to agrue a lot, and we hardly saw much of each other. I broke up with her a couple of times, but we always got back together. I forgive her and she forgav me for my mistakes. There was time when she spend most of the time with friends and not me. I also expressed my feeling to her but she always took it as if I was complaining to her. As time passing by we argue more and more and less time. She was very outspoken and rude when we argued most of the time, and that got to me a lot. She disrespected me most of the time and she was very inpatient and wanted her ways. I’m very simple and wasn’t as delicated as she was. She lived like 40 minutes away and I drove most of the time, due to she would complain that its too far. If I wanted to do something with her and she didn’t like where we were going. She were complain and end up not going and we ended up doing what she wanted. I said something to her. She complain. I’m the type of person that doesn’t like to argue a lot. So instead of listening to her argue if we didn’t agree on something. I would let her get her way. She always though of me negative, for example just recently she applied for a job and her interview went well and she got the job. But the company she applied too had to send the paper to coorparate, in which they did. She got a call yesterday saying that she didn’t get the job after all due to her D.U.I. She was disappointed and she thought I wanted her not to get the job. I told her she was wrong, I was happy that she actually got the job. she makes it seem that I’m a bad person when all I did was supporting her and being there for her.
Well just two days ago I broke up with her for the last time and I told her that its final. I couldn’t take it anymore. Despite all that, I’m in love with her and I miss her like crazy. I don’t know what to do now, I know it a very difficult situation to deal with. I don’t know if I should call her or just wait and give her sometime. I want her back but I said it final.
Please any advice I would appreciated.
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Monday, November 02nd, 2009 / admin
Where do i start? There is no question that I love my wife. For two years i have been married to her. I was the happiest man in the world when the both of us decided to elope back in 2006.
Unfortunatlly i never expected such a dark cloud of suffering during my 2 years of marriage. My wife and I were married back in March of 2006. One month later i found out a horrifying issue that she has. She was addicted to Crack Cocaine and Pain Pills.
I never saw it coming. It was just a mack truck that hit me straight on and it has yet to stop. Before we were married my wife was laid off from her job. She did not take it well at all. She was always upset, always sleeping and i noticed that she was not taking care of her place much anymore. I just thought to myself that this was probably typical when depressed about losing a job.
A couple weeks after we go married i notice odd things missing. I couldnt find my poker set, i couldnt find my watch, i couldnt find my camera..etc.. Since we just moved to a new house i just thought it was just packed up somewhere. After all was unpacked i still didnt find them. Everyweek something would dissapear.
During the same time i would notice that 20 here, 20 there was taken from the ATM a number of times each week…I couldnt figure it out. Sometime in April i needed to leave town for business for 5 days. Everything had been going great until my third day away. I was at a CVS buying a snack and my card was declined. Thinking that maybe i just forgot to move my money from one account to another i made no big deal of it. A couple hours later i was shocked to notice that 3 transactions had been made for 150, 300 and 220 from 9pm to 3am. I called the wife to see why so much was taken out a i couldnt get a hold of her to 24 hours.
After i came home i kept drilling her on why so much $ was taken out and she just said that she owed some people money and that its all taken care of. Naturally that answer was not good enough for me, but i just delt with it.
A week later once again 350 bucks was taken out. I tried to call her but no answer. I did not hear back for 48 hours. I begged and proded and pleaded to her. She finally broke down and told me the truth she was addicted to crack and pain pills and periodically she would have her binges. She promised me it wouldnt happen again and she was getting help.
A week later 500 gone. The continous circle of money concerns, divorce threats, appologies and dissapointments has gone full circle over an infinate number of times. The worst month was in September of 2007 when 2600 had been taken from savings in one month.
There have been a number of things ive tried from controling the money, letting our family know of the issues, selling out second car to make up for bills and to also limit her ability to drive. She just finds ways to still get her fix. From forging my name on my checks to phycolohgically messing with my mind and making me feel horrible for making her feel like i was controling her life.
In my opinion im dont believe that i crossed the line. I gave her money when she asked. All i asked was for reciepts. I would take her to when she wanted to go at ANYTIME of the day or night. i was her personal choffier. But unfortunatllly that wasnt enought in her mind. So what do i do?? Loan her the car. Unfortunatlly there were time where i got the impact of her binges. Many times she would leave me stranded for hours after work and i would just wait. Knowing deep inside the reason she was late was because she wasnt in a state to drive. On average i would be stranded for 5 or 6 hours until she came to get me or if i convinced a friend to drop me off. The worst was when i went to work an event 2 hours away from home Both her an i were working different promotional events. She got out a couple hours before i did. Because of that i gave her the car to get us something to eat…..She never came back. I didnt knopw what to do? My wife had left me to go 2 hours south to get her fix. She kept telling me that she was leaving in 10 minutes…2 hours went to 4 hours, 4 hours when to 6 hours…etc..It was midnight and she still hadnt shown up. I knew i had to walk to a hotel. I arrived at the hotel. Unfortunatlly to my dissapointment the card was declined. I looked in my pocket and only had 50 bucks. The room was 90. I couldnt do anything. I checked my balence and noticed “$0″. I called my wife and told her that i had 0 money and that i could not get a room. She said she would be leaving to get me….I was in the streets for 48 hours until i ran into a lady that was desperate for gas money and needed to go accross the state. After i convinced her i was safe, i gave her my last 40 bucks i had with me and she dropped me off to my car.
I love my wife, but going through this wirlwind of stress at the moment. Its really effecting my health and my job. At the same time i dont vent to anyone since i am JUST SO EMBARRASED about the wh
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Sunday, November 01st, 2009 / admin
So I posted another question and had on person respond saying his brother went to jail for the same things….. Below you will find the thread. I just want more information and stories on this. I am really upset as I have a right to free speech.
Craigslist “Going to Jail” email?
So I received an email last night after posting something on Craigslist. I was simply asking for chill people that wanted to hang out as I travel for a living and am trying to find some peeps. I have been here a year and just sit in my hotel. Although I do go to bars, I am looking for people that like bluegrass, jam bands and such; I also wanted to find some people that are what we call “420 friendly” (a term used all the time on craigslist post). I posted it and when I came back to my PC and checked my email (it is not one I have up all the time) I saw a message that said this “Let me be clear. If see your post again, you will be going to jail. It better be gone in the next 10 minutes. Your choice. ”
Funny thing was this was about an hour after I posted it. I replied to ask what was wrong with it and explained that I would remove it at that time. I went to remove it and it had already been flagged. I clicked on my check mail and I have this….
“As a matter of fact, I see it is still up, so since you didn’t believe me, you are now being reported to the police. Enjoy the investigation. Learn the lesson.”
I know that IP addresses can be used to determine who it is that is writing this things, but I don’t know what I did wrong, or how I can GO TO JAIL over writing something on a wall that was no directed at anyone.
I had nothing about $$$ on the site at all.
I wrote to craigslist legal department about it since I am a little concerned.
I find it funny that prostitutes can sell “company” for the evening, but I cannot even put a post about wanting to hang out with some chill people. You cannot arrest a woman for posting that she is going to have sex with someone for money, which is why they cannot just arrest corner girls, only those that offer themselves for money (a transaction has to take place).
Should I be concerned at all? Who should I contact about this?
Dave – What do you mean? What happened and what were the details…… was he trying to sell? Did he meet up with someone? How did they locate him?
This is wrong. I agree with everyone else, don’t they have better things to do.
What do I tell the authorities? Or should I just wait and see what happens?
The email was not from CL as all, but rather a gmail account.
WTF, never get on CL when you are drunk! You could pay for it……..
Thought I would add this article I found. I think I am ok, but still concerned…
Local and federal law enforcement officials said they’re aware dealers like Eric are turning to craigslist and other Web sites to sell pot, but the amounts sold are generally so small they’re not very concerned.
Craigslist prohibits illegal activity, but the Web site is mostly self-policed, according to a spokeswoman for the site.
Jeff Eig, spokesman for the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration’s Seattle office, said the amounts of illicit drugs sold via online transactions are generally so small that his agency hasn’t specifically gone after craigslist users dealing dope.
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/lo…
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