okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
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How come you never hear anything about the 10th reindeer “Olive” ?
Olive ?
Yeah, you know, “Olive the other reindeer, used to laugh and call him names”
Why are women’s breasts like a train set a kid gets at Christmas time ?
Because they were originally made for children but the father wants to play with them.
Why doesn’t Santa have any children ?
Because he only comes once a year, and when he does, it’s down the chimney.
Why is Christmas just like a day at the office ?
You do all the work and the fat guy with the suit gets all the credit.
How are a Christmas tree and a priest alike ?
They both have ornamental balls.
What do the female reindeer do when Santa takes the male reindeer out on Christmas Eve ?
They go into town, and blow a few bucks.
What’s the difference between snowmen and snowladies ?
Snowballs.
Why did the snowman have a smile on his face ?
Because the snowblower was coming down the block.
The three wise men arrived to visit the child lying in the manger. One of the wise men was exceptionally tall, and bumped his head on the low doorway as he entered the stable.
“Jesus Christ!” he shouted.
Joseph said, “Write that down, Mary; it’s better than Clyde!”
During the recent Karpov-Kasparov world chess championships they came to an adjournment and left for their hotel. In the lobby of the hotel several chess enthusiasts could be heard bragging, “I could beat Karpov with no problem”.
“Oh yeah, I could beat both of them at the same time.”
“That’s nothing, I could beat both of them blindfolded!”
Finally, the hotel manager had had enough and threw them all out of the hotel.
But why?” a bystander asked.
“Because,” the manager replied “I hate …”chess nuts boasting by an open foyer!”
A Sunday School teacher of pre-schoolers was concerned that his students might be a little confused about Jesus Christ because of the Christmas season emphasis on His birth. He wanted to make sure they understood that the birth of Jesus occurred a long time ago, that He grew up, etc. So he asked his class, “Where is Jesus today ?”
Johnny raised his hand and said, “He’s in heaven.” Mary was called on and answered, “He’s in my heart.” and Robert, waving his hand furiously, blurted out, “I know! I know! He’s in our bathroom!!!”
The whole class got very quiet, looked at the teacher, and waited for a response.
The teacher was completely at a loss for a few very long seconds. He finally gathered his wits and asked Robert how he knew this. and Robert said, “Well…..every morning my father gets up, bangs on the bathroom door, and yells ‘Jesus Christ, are you still in there?’!”
Santa Claus makes his way down the chimney, and is met by a lovely young woman in a robe.
She says “Santa, how about giving me a special present. I know you’d like to come into my bedroom.”
Santa responds “Ho! Ho! Ho! Gotta go. Gotta go. Gotta deliver all these toys to the children you know.”
The lovely young thing peels off her robe, revealing a skimpy negligee. Santa looks up from his sack of gifts, and she says “I’ve got something special for you Santa. Can’t you stay for just a little while? I know you want me. Let me make this Christmas eve unforgetable.”
Santa responds “Ho! Ho! Ho! Gotta go. Gotta go. Gotta deliver all these toys to the children you know.”
Not to be denied, she strips off the negligee, revealing her naughty bits, and they were quite nice naughty bits, I might add. And she says “Santa, this is your last chance. This body is your gift.”
Santa responds “Hey! Hey! Hey! Gotta stay. Gotta Stay. Can’t get up the chimney with my dick this way!”
As the Christmas season draws nigh, foretelling the end of over a full month of Commercial Christmas, there is a special urgency in the spirits of children as they visit toy stores and toy departments all over the country.
It was with particular urgency that little Wilbert dragged his mother to the toy department in a big Los Angeles department store. Mother quickly steered Wilbert into the line of children waiting to talk to Santa, but Wilbert was far more interested in the hobby horse.
As soon as his mother relaxed her vigilance for a moment, Wilbert vanished from the Santa Queue and began rocking back and forth on the hobby horse. His mother noticed his absence, and after a quick, frantic search, spotted him on the horse. She let him rock for a few minutes, then told him it was time to get off. Wilbert ignored her. She began to beg; Wilbert paid no attention. She began to make promises of sugarplums, etc., if only Wilbert would get off the hobby horse. He stuck his nasty little tongue out at her.
Then Santa himself, who had been watching this little family drama out of the corner of his eye, stepped over and said to Wilbert’s mother, “Perhaps I can persuade your son to cooperate.”
“I doubt that,” said the mother, “but you’re welcome to try.”
Santa, with a big smile, whispered quietly into Wilbert’s ear.
Wilbert’s eyes grew very large, he quickly slid off the horse and took his mother’s hand. Together, with no fuss, they left the store.
As they drove home, Mama asked Wilbert what Santa had whispered to him. Wilbert was silent. Mama began offering bribes (toys and German Chocolate cake) if Wilbert would only tell Mama what Santa’s words were. Wilbert turned pale and wouldn’t utter a word.
What had Santa said? Wilbert’s mother was determined to find out. She had never been able to get the kid to obey that easily, and decided it was worth a great deal of effort on her part to discover what magick Santa Claus had used on Wilbert.
She continued to bribe him with a soft voice and much cajolery, and Wilbert’s stubborn streak finally faded. What did Santa say?
Wilbert now answered: “He said, ‘Listen, you little son of a *****, if you don’t climb your *** the hell down off that horse right this second, I’m going to beat the heck out of you!’ ”
Why the Little Angel is at the top of the Christmas Tree …
On Christmas Eve Santa Claus was getting ready for his annual trip. As he pulled his favorite pair of red pants on, they ripped. So, he had to take them off and put on another pair, which was a bit too tight. He then went to check on the rest of the preparations. The elves were on strike. The reindeer had shin-splints. At this point, Santa was BUMMED. He went into the kitchen to take a calming drink, and the bottle was EMPTY. Now he was really mad. All of sudden, there was a knock at the door. Santa, in his angry state, ignored it. There was another knock. Santa was in no mood for all of this. When the knock came again, Santa–filled with rage–threw open the door. Standing there was a little angel who said, “Hi Santa! What do you want me to do with this Christmas Tree?”
One evening, in a busy lounge in the deep south, a reindeer walked in the door, bellied up to the bar and ordered a martini. Without batting an eye, the bartender mixed and poured the drink, set it in front of the reindeer, and accepted the twenty-dollar bill from the reindeer’s hoof.
As he handed the reindeer some coins in change, he said “You know, I think you’re the first reindeer I’ve ever seen in here.”
The reindeer looked hard at the hoofful of change and said “Hmmmpf. Let me tell you something, buddy. At these ******’ prices, I’m the last reindeer you’ll see in here.”
How come you never hear anything about the 10th reindeer “Olive” ?
Olive ?
Yeah, you know, “Olive the other reindeer, used to laugh and call him names”
Why are women’s breasts like a train set a kid gets at Christmas time ?
Because they were originally made for children but the father wants to play with them.
Why doesn’t Santa have any children ?
Because he only comes once a year, and when he does, it’s down the chimney.
Why is Christmas just like a day at the office ?
You do all the work and the fat guy with the suit gets all the credit.
How are a Christmas tree and a priest alike ?
They both have ornamental balls.
What do the female reindeer do when Santa takes the male reindeer out on Christmas Eve ?
They go into town, and blow a few bucks.
What’s the difference between snowmen and snowladies ?
Snowballs.
Why did the snowman have a smile on his face ?
Because the snowblower was coming down the block.
The three wise men arrived to visit the child lying in the manger. One of the wise men was exceptionally tall, and bumped his head on the low doorway as he entered the stable.
“Jesus Christ!” he shouted.
Joseph said, “Write that down, Mary; it’s better than Clyde!”
During the recent Karpov-Kasparov world chess championships they came to an adjournment and left for their hotel. In the lobby of the hotel several chess enthusiasts could be heard bragging, “I could beat Karpov with no problem”.
“Oh yeah, I could beat both of them at the same time.”
“That’s nothing, I could beat both of them blindfolded!”
Finally, the hotel manager had had enough and threw them all out of the hotel.
But why?” a bystander asked.
“Because,” the manager replied “I hate …”chess nuts boasting by an open foyer!”
A Sunday School teacher of pre-schoolers was concerned that his students might be a little confused about Jesus Christ because of the Christmas season emphasis on His birth. He wanted to make sure they understood that the birth of Jesus occurred a long time ago, that He grew up, etc. So he asked his class, “Where is Jesus today ?”
Johnny raised his hand and said, “He’s in heaven.” Mary was called on and answered, “He’s in my heart.” and Robert, waving his hand furiously, blurted out, “I know! I know! He’s in our bathroom!!!”
The whole class got very quiet, looked at the teacher, and waited for a response.
The teacher was completely at a loss for a few very long seconds. He finally gathered his wits and asked Robert how he knew this. and Robert said, “Well…..every morning my father gets up, bangs on the bathroom door, and yells ‘Jesus Christ, are you still in there?’!”
Santa Claus makes his way down the chimney, and is met by a lovely young woman in a robe.
She says “Santa, how about giving me a special present. I know you’d like to come into my bedroom.”
Santa responds “Ho! Ho! Ho! Gotta go. Gotta go. Gotta deliver all these toys to the children you know.”
The lovely young thing peels off her robe, revealing a skimpy negligee. Santa looks up from his sack of gifts, and she says “I’ve got something special for you Santa. Can’t you stay for just a little while? I know you want me. Let me make this Christmas eve unforgetable.”
Santa responds “Ho! Ho! Ho! Gotta go. Gotta go. Gotta deliver all these toys to the children you know.”
Not to be denied, she strips off the negligee, revealing her naughty bits, and they were quite nice naughty bits, I might add. And she says “Santa, this is your last chance. This body is your gift.”
Santa responds “Hey! Hey! Hey! Gotta stay. Gotta Stay. Can’t get up the chimney with my d*ck this way!”
As the Christmas season draws nigh, foretelling the end of over a full month of Commercial Christmas, there is a special urgency in the spirits of children as they visit toy stores and toy departments all over the country.
It was with particular urgency that little Wilbert dragged his mother to the toy department in a big Los Angeles department store. Mother quickly steered Wilbert into the line of children waiting to talk to Santa, but Wilbert was far more interested in the hobby horse.
As soon as his mother relaxed her vigilance for a moment, Wilbert vanished from the Santa Queue and began rocking back and forth on the hobby horse. His mother noticed his absence, and after a quick, frantic search, spotted him on the horse. She let him rock for a few minutes, then told him it was time to get off. Wilbert ignored her. She began to beg; Wilbert paid no attention. She began to make promises of sugarplums, etc., if only Wilbert would get off the hobby horse. He stuck his nasty little tongue out at her.
Then Santa himself, who had been watching this little family drama out of the corner of his eye, stepped over and said to Wilbert’s mother, “Perhaps I can persuade your son to cooperate.”
“I doubt that,” said the mother, “but you’re welcome to try.”
Santa, with a big smile, whispered quietly into Wilbert’s ear.
Wilbert’s eyes grew very large, he quickly slid off the horse and took his mother’s hand. Together, with no fuss, they left the store.
As they drove home, Mama asked Wilbert what Santa had whispered to him. Wilbert was silent. Mama began offering bribes (toys and German Chocolate cake) if Wilbert would only tell Mama what Santa’s words were. Wilbert turned pale and wouldn’t utter a word.
What had Santa said? Wilbert’s mother was determined to find out. She had never been able to get the kid to obey that easily, and decided it was worth a great deal of effort on her part to discover what magick Santa Claus had used on Wilbert.
She continued to bribe him with a soft voice and much cajolery, and Wilbert’s stubborn streak finally faded. What did Santa say?
Wilbert now answered: “He said, ‘Listen, you little son of a b*tch, if you don’t climb your a*s the hell down off that horse right this second, I’m going to beat the heck out of you!’ ”
Why the Little Angel is at the top of the Christmas Tree …
On Christmas Eve Santa Claus was getting ready for his annual trip. As he pulled his favorite pair of red pants on, they ripped. So, he had to take them off and put on another pair, which was a bit too tight. He then went to check on the rest of the preparations. The elves were on strike. The reindeer had shin-splints. At this point, Santa was BUMMED. He went into the kitchen to take a calming drink, and the bottle was EMPTY. Now he was really mad. All of sudden, there was a knock at the door. Santa, in his angry state, ignored it. There was another knock. Santa was in no mood for all of this. When the knock came again, Santa–filled with rage–threw open the door. Standing there was a little angel who said, “Hi Santa! What do you want me to do with this Christmas Tree?”
One evening, in a busy lounge in the deep south, a reindeer walked in the door, bellied up to the bar and ordered a martini. Without batting an eye, the bartender mixed and poured the drink, set it in front of the reindeer, and accepted the twenty-dollar bill from the reindeer’s hoof.
As he handed the reindeer some coins in change, he said “You know, I think you’re the first reindeer I’ve ever seen in here.”
The reindeer looked hard at the hoofful of change and said “Hmmmpf. Let me tell you something, buddy. At these f*ckin’ prices, I’m the last reindeer you’ll see in here.”
All i did was ask my ex to stop saying names bout my gf and this happens?
All this from asking someone to stop abusing my girlfriend?
all i did was ask my ex to stop saying nasty things bout my current girlfriend and all this started wtf?
18 minutes ago – 4 days left to answer.
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i’m allowed to say what ever the **** i want to about that stupid little slut. bet she’s a dead root in bed. i never actually blew with you. you blew with me that’s why i broke up with you. and why the **** would i want to talk to you for? last nite, when you were making those faces, you realise everyone was laughing at you? it looked you were acting like a ******* three year old. of course it was a mistake to go out with you last night. the only person i had fun with last night was andrew. you know i was serious last night how i said i didn’t want to go back out with you. from what i’ve been told, why the hell would i want ot go out with a 24 year old who is a slob and just lost his virginity? that is soooooooooooo sad. min’s right about what she has being saying about you as well. jacinta said if she ever ****** see’s you or that dog around, ****** look out. cause like she said nobody hurts her ******* sister. you were so full of **** last night with how you said you know how to fight. ******* liar. by the way, if you ever, call, text, or even email me, i will call the ******* cops cause i’m getting a restraining order against you. i can’t be friends with someone who is an alcoholic like adrew said and ******* hits women. ******* woman basher i have so many friends that hate woman bashers. THIS IS HER SISTER HERE . SHE IS ALLOWED TO GO TO THE GV HOTEL IF SHE LIKES AND FOR ONE YOU ASKED HER IF SHE LIKED TO GO NOT HER!!!!!!!!!!!! SHES NOT HARESSING U OK. SO CALL THE POLICE AS I WILL BE DOING IT MYSELF IF U ARE THREATING HER OK!!! AND TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND IF SHE WANTS TO START SHE HAS TO DEAL WITH ME FIRST !!!!!!!!!!!! YOU WERE FINE YESTERDAY WITH MY SISTER DONNA AND I TOLD U IF ANYONE HURTS HER, WHY THE **** U GOING TO CALL THE POLICE ON HER AS SHE HASNT DONE ANYTHING WRONG . SHE WAS CATCHING UP WITH U AS A FRIEND AND SHE TOLD U THAT SHE ONLY WANTED TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!! ALSO U CANT TELL HER NOT TO GO TO THE GV ANYMORE AS ITS A PUBLIC PLACE AND MAYBE I MIGHT JUST GO ONE NIGHT WITH HER AND IF U ARE THERE WHO GIVES A **** AS WE ARE ALLOWED TO BE THERE TOO. BUT IF U TRY TO TALK TO MY SISTER AND **** HER AROUND AGAIN U WILL BE DEALING WITH ME. SO IF U WANT TO THREATEN SOMEONE GO A HEAD AS U DONT KNOW WHO THE **** U ARE PLAYING WITH AS U DONT KNOW WHO I KNOW!!!!!!!!! IM NOT THREATENING U BUT IF U ARE TRYING TO THREATEN MY SISTER THEN THERE WILL BE TROUBLE!!!!! U ARE THE ONE THAT ADDED HER ON FACEBOOK NOT HER SO DONT BLAME HER. IVE GOT ALL THE MESSAGES RIGHT HERE WITH US .i am no longer replying to anymore emails from you ‘well stop messaging her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… her email right now
2 hours ago – 4 days left to answer.
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
okay so heres a long story, ill try to make it simple. me and this guy met on a cruise. it was a 9 day cruise, and we met the first night. he was with all of his cousins and we hung out as a big group the 1st,2nd,and 3rd night. the 4th night we started hanging out in a group, then me and this kid hung out alone and we talked the entire night. we talked about everything, and we only hooked up by the end of the night. but before we hooked up, he asked if me and him were hanging out the next night and i said of course. he slept over that night and layed with me. the 5th night he was in the casino so my friend went to get him cause he was winning. he came to hang out with me. i layed on him and we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i told him he could go back to the casino and he told me he wanted to be with me. we got to his room and we were talking then i layed on the bed and he followed and we were hooking up. he did everything to me, i didnt do anything to him. everything led to sex. he didnt talk much during it, but he was gentle and really sweet afterwards. after sex, he walked me back to my room and was going to come in but his cousin walked past, so the 3 of us went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush cause someone was winning but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there, which was really sweet. i got tired so i told him i was going back to my room to sleep. he said he would come to my room in a little while. sure enough, he came to my room to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but he thought i was with another guy, so the next two nights we didnt talk cause he was upset. finally, the 8th night he confronted me about it, and said he was looking for me, but thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt, and he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that night we hung out and talked for a long time, and he was saying how im his gf on the cruise, and if i lived where he did, wed be going out, and how hes marrying me. haha. we ended up having sex again but this time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and he told me to tell him when to stop and if it hurt. after that, he slept over and layed with me. the next and last night we just hung out the entire night and talked and he kissed me on the lips goodbye.
right after the cruise, he contacted me. we have been in contact now for 10 months, and weve seen eachother twice. one time i surprise visited him for 20 minutes, and the other time we planned, and we did not have sex or do anything except talk the entire night. after that visit, he texted me and said “thanks for coming ..cant wait to see you again” later that night i told him i was going to sleep and i told him to have fun and he said “all my fun left at 12″..which is when i left. we even had a conversation that night and i asked if he used me and he promised he didnt. later i said “im really glad we got to talk tonight about that stuff”..and he said “youre real cool i would never use you”
two nights later he texted me again and we were talking and i was asking him to come visit me and we can go to the city..he said “way rather see you then the city,” meaning..it doesnt matter what we do as long as i see you ..which was really sweet. he would also comment me at random times with funny videos. the last time we were supposed to hang out, i was in his state, and i was staying at a hotel. he was gonna come and pick up my friends, and we even talked that night about it but he never called. he made a mistake, and he knew it. he called later that night and said “i dont care how much it costs im getting a hotel room at your hotel..and you and youre friends can come over and chill…i wanna see you so badly” i told him it was too late, and he should have thought about that earlier. he knew he was wrong…
5 days later he calls me to apologize. he was really sincere, and it made me feel really important. it must have taken him 5 days to muster up the confidence, cause he called me right after work. he asked me when i was coming down again..and he said “you never write me anymore on myspace..let’s keep this long distance relationship going” and then he told me he hopes i have a great day at school the next day. it was really cute.
now his myspace song is hey there delilah. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 2 months, and he knows that.
1. do you think he used me in the beginning..or is holding onto me for sex in college?
2. do you think he just likes me because of sex?
3. do you think he wants a relationship with me and really likes me a lot?
4. do you think were just friends or more?
was the day we got married but that was the ceramony May 23rd but ervyone thinks its was May 23rd is the date that we got married. Anyway back to the crazy stuff so the respect that I had for her cousin dropped because I was unaware of him and that was sick to me.
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okay this is a long story, but please help me out. okay i met this guy on a 9 day cruise. he was on the cruise with all of his cousins, and i was on it with my best friend. we met the 1st night and hung out with all of them every single night of the cruise. the first 3 nights we hung out as a group, and then the 4th we were in a group, and this guy was showing us different magic tricks. he then wanted to try a card trick, and i happened to have cards in my room, he came with me to my room, and there was nobody in there, but he didnt even take advantage of that. we went back to the other room and he showed us card tricks, it was a lot of fun, and he was really sweet. he then left with one of his cousins to go to the casino, and i asked if he was coming back and he promised me in 20 minutes, and kissed me on the cheek. and he came back in 15 minutes 
. we were hanging out then we had alone time and spent the entire night talking. he told me right away “dont think im gay..id be all over you..but you made out with my brother last night” (i only made out with his brother the night before nothing else at all). it was understandable, and he didnt even try anything but the topic of me being a virgin came up. he didnt believe me that i was, and then he told me to wait for someone i really like and then he said “and its not going to be me.” he asked me that night also if me and him were going to be hanging out the next night, and i said yes. then my drunk friend walked in and had to throw up in the toilet, and i had to pee, so the guy walked me to his room to use his bathroom, and once again nobody was in there, but he didnt even take advantage. we went back to my room and continued talking. my friend was then like..”would you kiss her already” and he said..”only if she says yes”..so i said yes, and then i teased him and said “oh i thought nothing could happen cause i was with your brother”..and he said “oh man i forgot about that i liked you, and now you reminded me of that”..so he stopped kissing me but then i continued. he then slept over and layed with me that night. the next night my friend got him from the casino. he came into my room, sat on the bed, and i went to go lay with him. we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i said yes, and we had our privacy now. we were talking about how he won money, and then i layed on the bed, he followed, and he did everything to me, i didnt do a single thing to him. we then ended up having sex in the moment, it was great. but during it he said “some guys dont last this long”..which was kinda cocky, and he was prob trying to not sound gay and be a man. i did like him a lot but i said “i thought you told me to wait for the person i really like”..and he said “you could like me”..after sex, he got pants for me, and walked me to my room with his arm around me. we were about to go in, but his cousin walked by and we went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush, but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there..which was really sweet:). i got there and told him i was tired, and i was going back to my room. he said he would come back in a little while, and sure enough he did, and he slept over and layed with me. the next day he came looking for me, but i was in a room with two of his guy cousins, and my best friend. nothing was happening at all, but my best friend was drunk and wouldnt let the guy in. he was asking her if i was in there, and where i was cause he wanted to hang out. i noticed he was mad at me, and we didnt talk for 2 nights, even though we were hanging out in a group. the 8th night finally he confronted me about it and told me he thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt and he even asked my friend what the deal with me was. she told him that i like him and i wasnt with any other guys, and he nodded and smiled in approval. that night we hung out the entire night talking, me, this guy, and my best friend. he always includes my best friend, and never makes her feel left out. eventually one of his cousins came in the room to hang out with my friend, and we got some alone time. we ended up having sex, and he was constantly asking me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop and if i was in pain. i was in pain for whatever reason, and we had to stop for a little while. he then suggested trying it without the condom to see what it feels like. i said yes, cause he asked me, he didnt just take it off without me knowing, which made me really happy. he then said “you might have to give me head”..im assuming to finish? or to make it hard again? but i didnt do it anyway, even though he pleasured me all the time. it felt a whole lot better, and he asked me if it hurt still or if it felt good and if i wanted him to stop. and he said “babe you need to let me know if it hurts.” earlier in the night he was holding my hand and calling me his gf on the cruise, and if i lived near him wed be gf and bf, and were gonna get married. because it just so happens im going to college near him, and he knows this. he asked if we were spending the whole next day together and we were talking about how it was technically our last night together. so after sex he slept over again and layed with me. the last night we just hung out the entire night and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. right after the cruise, he contacted me the exact day we got home. we’ve been in contact for 11 months, and we’ve seen eachother twice since the cruise. the first time was only 20 minutes, but the second time was 2 hours, and nothing happened. he texted me right after the second visit saying “thanks for coming cant wait to see you again”..and later when i told him to have fun he said “all my fun left at 12″…then two nights later he texted me again and we were talking about him visiting me and going to the city, and he said “way rather see you then the city”..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, id rather see you. then one time he messed up plans cause i was near where he lived, and we were supposed to hang out. and he knew he messed up cause he called me that night saying “i dont care how much it costs, ill get a hotel room at your hotel, and your friends can come, and we’ll all hang out cause i wanna see you so badly”..but i told him it was too late. 5 days later, he calls me to apologize once again. it was really sweet, and showed he really cares. he said “you never write me anymore and let’s keep this long distance relationship going”
was i just a fun thing ?
or do you think he really likes me and wants a relationship?
okay this is a long story, but please help me out. okay i met this guy on a 9 day cruise. he was on the cruise with all of his cousins, and i was on it with my best friend. we met the 1st night and hung out with all of them every single night of the cruise. the first 3 nights we hung out as a group, and then the 4th we were in a group, and this guy was showing us different magic tricks. he then wanted to try a card trick, and i happened to have cards in my room, he came with me to my room, and there was nobody in there, but he didnt even take advantage of that. we went back to the other room and he showed us card tricks, it was a lot of fun, and he was really sweet. he then left with one of his cousins to go to the casino, and i asked if he was coming back and he promised me in 20 minutes, and kissed me on the cheek. and he came back in 15 minutes . we were hanging out then we had alone time and spent the entire night talking. he told me right away “dont think im gay..id be all over you..but you made out with my brother last night” (i only made out with his brother the night before nothing else at all). it was understandable, and he didnt even try anything but the topic of me being a virgin came up. he didnt believe me that i was, and then he told me to wait for someone i really like and then he said “and its not going to be me.” he asked me that night also if me and him were going to be hanging out the next night, and i said yes. then my drunk friend walked in and had to throw up in the toilet, and i had to pee, so the guy walked me to his room to use his bathroom, and once again nobody was in there, but he didnt even take advantage. we went back to my room and continued talking. my friend was then like..”would you kiss her already” and he said..”only if she says yes”..so i said yes, and then i teased him and said “oh i thought nothing could happen cause i was with your brother”..and he said “oh man i forgot about that i liked you, and now you reminded me of that”..so he stopped kissing me but then i continued. he then slept over and layed with me that night. the next night my friend got him from the casino. he came into my room, sat on the bed, and i went to go lay with him. we started hooking up and he asked me if i wanted to go to his room. i said yes, and we had our privacy now. we were talking about how he won money, and then i layed on the bed, he followed, and he did everything to me, i didnt do a single thing to him. we then ended up having sex in the moment, it was great. but during it he said “some guys dont last this long”..which was kinda cocky, and he was prob trying to not sound gay and be a man. i did like him a lot but i said “i thought you told me to wait for the person i really like”..and he said “you could like me”..after sex, he got pants for me, and walked me to my room with his arm around me. we were about to go in, but his cousin walked by and we went to the casino. him and his cousin were in a rush, but he kept looking back to make sure i was still there..which was really sweet:). i got there and told him i was tired, and i was going back to my room. he said he would come back in a little while, and sure enough he did, and he slept over and layed with me. the next day he came looking for me, but i was in a room with two of his guy cousins, and my best friend. nothing was happening at all, but my best friend was drunk and wouldnt let the guy in. he was asking her if i was in there, and where i was cause he wanted to hang out. i noticed he was mad at me, and we didnt talk for 2 nights, even though we were hanging out in a group. the 8th night finally he confronted me about it and told me he thought i was with another guy. i told him i wasnt and he even asked my friend what the deal with me was. she told him that i like him and i wasnt with any other guys, and he nodded and smiled in approval. that night we hung out the entire night talking, me, this guy, and my best friend. he always includes my best friend, and never makes her feel left out. eventually one of his cousins came in the room to hang out with my friend, and we got some alone time. we ended up having sex, and he was constantly asking me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop and if i was in pain. i was in pain for whatever reason, and we had to stop for a little while. he then suggested trying it without the condom to see what it feels like. i said yes, cause he asked me, he didnt just take it off without me knowing, which made me really happy. he then said “you might have to give me head”..im assuming to finish? or to make it hard again? but i didnt do it anyway, even though he pleasured me all the time. it felt a whole lot better, and he asked me if it hurt still or if it felt good and if i wanted him to stop. and he said “babe you need to let me know if it hurts.” earlier in the night he was holding my hand and calling me his gf on the cruise, and if i lived near him wed be gf and bf, and were gonna get married. because it just so happens im going to college near him, and he knows this. he asked if we were spending the whole next day together and we were talking about how it was technically our last night together. so after sex he slept over again and layed with me. the last night we just hung out the entire night and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. right after the cruise, he contacted me the exact day we got home. we’ve been in contact for 11 months, and we’ve seen eachother twice since the cruise. the first time was only 20 minutes, but the second time was 2 hours, and nothing happened. he texted me right after the second visit saying “thanks for coming cant wait to see you again”..and later when i told him to have fun he said “all my fun left at 12″…then two nights later he texted me again and we were talking about him visiting me and going to the city, and he said “way rather see you then the city”..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, id rather see you. then one time he messed up plans cause i was near where he lived, and we were supposed to hang out. and he knew he messed up cause he called me that night saying “i dont care how much it costs, ill get a hotel room at your hotel, and your friends can come, and we’ll all hang out cause i wanna see you so badly”..but i told him it was too late. 5 days later, he calls me to apologize once again. it was really sweet, and showed he really cares. he said “you never write me anymore and let’s keep this long distance relationship going”
explain this then
did he use me then like me?
or like me the whole time?
what did it mean when he said wait for the one you really like and its not going to be me then he said you could like me?
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